Let's take a little time to explore this
critically important issue, shall we?
Self-esteem is a huge stumbling block
for a lot of women - and there is good news...you can change anything in 30
days, if you want to. I’ll show you how you can have better relationships
with men by improving your self-esteem…in
one short month.
I’m going to tell you something that you
may not want to hear - or may not believe. Ready?
Self-esteem is the single biggest
indicator of how successful you’ll be with men.
Am I just making a wild statement here,
or is it the absolute truth?
I’ve now been coaching women for over a
decade, and I’ve seen countless examples of what women do (or don’t do)
because their self-esteem isn’t where it should be.
Take a look at some of the ways low
self-esteem shows up, and decide for yourself whether or not it impacts the
ability to be successful in relationships.
Have You Ever Had Any of These
Symptoms of Low Self-Esteem?
Do You (check all that apply):
feel panicked if a guy you liked doesn’t call you back?
keep yourself from being authentic on a date, and become what you think he
wants?
feel you're not pretty/smart/thin/fit/successful enough for the kind of man
you want?
chase men, rather than waiting for them to pursue you (because you’re sure
they won’t!)?
find a reason to push him away, if you do happen to attract a good man?
give too much – hoping it will make him like you?
struggle with allowing a man to give to you?
say you don’t care when a man asks you what you'd like to do (when you do
care)?
take full blame for anything that’s wrong in the relationship?
If you checked even one item on the
list, you’re not alone. Feelings of being not good enough, unworthy,
or somehow inadequate are rampant in women today. It just kills me to see so many gorgeous, fabulous women with so
much to offer the right man walking around feeling badly about themselves.
It's a shame!
CASE STUDY: Let me tell you about
Linda. She’s a pretty, smart, successful, very kind and loving woman – with
a great sense of humor. Quite a catch! The problem is…she didn’t believe
it. Nothing anyone said or did budged her from her absolute certainty that
there was something wrong with her and she’d be “found out” as soon as a man
(or anyone, for that matter) got to know her well. You can imagine what
that meant, right? She made sure no one got that close to her! She either
stayed very busy with work and other projects, or she caused an issue when
she was getting to know someone so that they’d end up going away – or she’d
send ‘em packing. It was painful for her – and painful to watch.
You may know a woman in the same boat
Linda was in before she decided to increase her self-esteem. Maybe
you see her in the mirror.
You can change anything you want to – if you want to badly enough!
Here's the thing: We're all doing our
very best, in every moment, given our resources, information and experience.
It just makes sense that if we want something to be different than it is
right now, we have to learn how.
Have You Ever Done Something That
Totally Changed Your Life Forever?
The truth is that it’s just a decision
to make a commitment to feel good about yourself, and then do the work
you’ve got to do. It’s not easy work. But it is simple work.
I’ve been there myself, in that
incredibly frustrating, lonely, scary place of trying to date while not
feeling great about myself. Actually, my first marriage was a product of my
self-esteem being in a pretty bad place - first in choosing him, and then,
even more painful, the way I behaved while we were married. Ouch!
Thankfully
I did the work I needed to do,
and am now happily married to Craig, a spectacular, wonderful, loving man.
I want this for you, too!
CASE STUDY: Kaitlin is a tall,
gorgeous, powerful and fun-loving woman. She’s had a hard time attracting a
man who’s right for her . Oh, she’s attracted plenty of men – don’t get me
wrong: men who weren’t available, or they didn’t treat her like a treasure
(more like a maid, frankly), or they weren’t a fit for what she wanted.
Frustrating! But she made a courageous decision. She took on the work of
feeling worthy of having the kind of man she’d always known she wanted. It
took some time, and it took being disciplined, but she is having the time of
her life right now, attracting interesting men who seem to be a much better
fit for her than in her past.
How did she do it? By changing
her beliefs about herself. If you’re currently operating from a
faulty ‘story’ about yourself, you can change it. In fact, if you want to
be able to have what you want in your life, it’s critically important that
you do change your beliefs. They are running the show, and causing all
kinds of unwanted trouble in your love life – and the rest of your life,
too!
Here’s How You Can Improve Your
Self-Esteem...Starting Today
Changing a belief system that’s been in
place for most of your life is going to take support and guidance. After
all, if you knew how to do it you’d
already be doing it…isn’t that a fair statement to make?
Improve Your Self-Esteem
(and your relationships with men)
in 30 Days
In this 15-session ecourse, designed to
be done over a 30-day period, you’ll go from wherever your self-esteem is to
a place where you have tools and perspective to consistently choose high
self-esteem in your life – and in your relationships with men.
If you want to have a high-quality
connection with a great man, feeling good about yourself (and being able to
convey it), is not just a good idea - it’s critically important to your
ability to attract, and keep, the kind of man you want.
Think about it. Who ever heard of a
woman with low self esteem and an authentically great life?
Where you are currently with your
self-esteem (information is power)
the negative beliefs you have that
hold you back
how to create positive, intentional
beliefs to help you get to where you want to go in your life
how to tame that familiar, critical
voice inside you, and replace it with a much more helpful message
How to consistently see and appreciate
what's great about you
I Want You To Be Successful
By now you know that high self-esteem is
crucial to success in all areas of your life. We know you’re a very busy
woman, and your life is full. I designed this course with you in
mind!
In order to support you to be
successful, each session has simple exercises that can be completed in
approximately 15-20 minutes. If you complete one session every two days, as
it’s designed to be done, you’ll complete the program and be on your way to
higher self-esteem in just 30 days.
No matter how busy you are, I’ll
bet you can scare up 20 minutes out of your schedule every 2nd day.
Plus I’ll send you an email every two
days to support you in being successful by reminding you of the session for
that day. These emails are to help you keep yourself a priority in
your life, and to complete the program.
Are You Asking Yourself Whether or
not This Will Really Work For You?
100% Risk-Free 45-Day Money-Back Guarantee
You may be thinking "I’ve tried other
programs, and they haven’t worked. I want a proven program that works."
Here’s my promise to you: If you really
do this course, complete all the exercises, and give it your best, and you
still find that your self-esteem hasn't improved any since before you
started the program, I will not only give you a complete refund, I'll also
give you a free laser coaching call (15 - 20 minutes) to help you figure out
what's next for you.
There is
zero risk to you in trying "Improve Your Self-Esteem (and your relationships
with men) in 30 Days".
One-to-one coaching and group coaching
would require an investment of at least $120 per month.
"Improve Your Self-Esteem (and your relationships with men) in 30 Days" will
cost you a fraction of that.
If you need more details before
deciding,
click here.
I think you’ll agree that the cost
is nothing in comparison to what it'll cost you in terms of your
relationships, career and life to not do the work to raise your
self-esteem.
You're worthy of having the relationships, and the life, you really want.
I would love to be able to help you have those things. I hope you give
this program a try...I guarantee it
will help you, or, not only will you get your money back, but you'll
get a free laser coaching session to boot!
If this is the right time for you to
improve your self-esteem, to have higher regard for yourself - and have
better relationships because of it...to have the life you've always dreamed
of, it all starts with a better relationship with you.
Click here to get started!
Wishing you great love in your life,
Karen
P.S. -
Don't let one more
day go by feeling less than great about who you are. This
program is immediately downloadable...how much more time are you willing to
spend feeling bad?
Click here to be on your way!
Do you have a relationship dream? Karen Jones can help.
Call: (978) 557-9993 or email:
karen@theheartmatters.com