Is Your
Self-Esteem Keeping You From Being Loved
the Way Your Man Wants to Love You
(and the way you want to be loved)?
Don’t let your
misguided feelings about yourself
get in the way of his doing what he’s hard-wired to do:
to provide for, and to protect, YOU!
Hi there,
Let's take a little time to explore this
critically important issue, shall we?
Self-esteem is a huge stumbling block
for a lot of women - and there is good news...you can change anything in 30
days, if you want to. I’ll show you how you can have a better relationship
with your man by improving your self-esteem…in
one short month.
I’m going to tell you something that you
may not want to hear - or may not believe. Ready?
Self-esteem is the single biggest
indicator of how successful you’ll be in your relationship with your man.
Am I just making a wild statement here,
or is it the absolute truth?
I’ve now been coaching women for over a
decade, and I’ve seen countless examples of what women do (or don’t do)
because their self-esteem isn’t where it should be.
Take a look at some of the ways low
self-esteem shows up, and decide for yourself whether or not it's having an
impact on your relationship...
Have You Ever Had Any of These
Symptoms of Low Self-Esteem?
Do You (check all that apply):
have a hard
time asking for what you need?
keep yourself from being authentic, and become who you think he wants?
feel you're not pretty/smart/thin/fit/sexy enough to keep your man around?
keep things from
him because you’re afraid of what he’ll think about you?
find it hard to
accept your man (the same one you fell in love with)?
do too much for/to
your man, so that he’ll love you more?
struggle with
accepting when your man wants to give to you?
find that
you’re always angry, or angry more time than you’d like?
take full blame for anything that’s wrong in the relationship?
If you checked even one item on the
list, you’re not alone. Feelings of being not good enough, unworthy,
or somehow inadequate are rampant in women today. It just kills me to see so many gorgeous, fabulous women with so
much to happiness to experience in their relationships walking around
feeling badly about themselves.
It's a shame!
I love how you go into the different aspects of self esteem and define it
so clearly!!! It helps me pinpoint what my weak areas are, and acknowledge
places where I'm doing OK.
I really like how you are so compassionate. It was also great to learn
that some of the things I thought I had to do to make a relationship
successful were really a result of low self-esteem.
– Leslie, MA
I really enjoyed the Self Esteem class
and feel like I learned some new things and have put them into practice.
Things are going great! Thanks so much!
-
Chris, MA
A big "thank you" for creating such a life-changing online course.
I've gotten so much from it! I summarize my experience by saying that I
now truly listen to the wisdom of my soul because I'm present and focused
inwards versus outwards. I enjoyed it so much that I am going to repeat it
again. Thanks for this gift of high self-esteem and worthiness.
- Heidi, MA
I am finding the
exercises very helpful and very illuminating. Thank you!
- Jennie, MA
Here’s
What One Woman’s Low Self Esteem Looked Like With Her Man
CASE STUDY: Let me tell you about
Claudia. She’s a great woman; she and Doug have been together for many
years. She was struggling with not talking with him about something that
was really weighing heavily on her mind, because she was afraid he’d get mad
(a long-standing pattern for her). Her fear of his negative feelings
towards her (or even the potential) kept her feeling isolated and pretty
anxious most of the time. She felt like she had to do it alone; anything to
keep Doug from being upset with her...and her self-esteem kept her acting as
if it were true. She did some great work with her sense of worthiness, was
able to see that he loved her and wanted to help, and turned the situation
around completely. Today, they talk openly, honestly and lovingly – about
anything and everything – and they’re closer than they’ve ever been.
You may know a woman in the same boat
Claudia was in before she decided to increase her self-esteem. Maybe
you see her in the mirror.
You can change anything you want to – if you want to badly enough!
Here's the thing: We're all doing our
very best, in every moment, given our resources, information and experience.
It just makes sense that if we want something to be different than it is
right now, we have to learn how.
Have You Ever Done Something That
Totally Changed Your Life Forever?
The truth is that it’s just a decision
to make a commitment to feel good about yourself, and then do the work
you’ve got to do. It’s not easy work. But it is simple work.
I’ve been there myself, in that
incredibly frustrating, lonely, scary place of trying to be happy in a
relationship while not feeling great about myself. Actually, my first
marriage was a product of my self-esteem being in a pretty bad place - first
in choosing him, and then, even more painful, the way I behaved while we
were married. Ouch!
Thankfully
I did the work I needed to do,
and am now happily married to Craig, a spectacular, wonderful, loving man.
I want this for you, too!
CASE STUDY: Bridget was always
taking care of things...she never seemed to need anything. Her husband
certainly didn't feel as though she needed him, and so he didn't do much.
She was pretty peeved under her "handled" exterior. And the cause of
this issue? Her low self-esteem! Not being able to ask for what she
needed (and you can bet she needed things, like all of us do), and being
angry because her husband wasn't responding to her (unspoken) expectations.
They were in trouble. Until she learned how to make her needs a
priority, and learned how to talk with him about those needs in a way he
could hear. Life is so much easier now...for both of them!
How did she do it? By changing
her beliefs about herself. If you’re currently operating from a
faulty ‘story’ about yourself, you can change it. In fact, if you want to
be able to have what you want in your life, it’s critically important that
you do change your beliefs. They are running the show, and causing all
kinds of unwanted trouble in your love life – and the rest of your life,
too!
Here’s How You Can Improve Your
Self-Esteem...Starting Today
Changing a belief system that’s been in
place for most of your life is going to take support and guidance. After
all, if you knew how to do it you’d
already be doing it…isn’t that a fair statement to make?
Improve Your Self-Esteem
(and your relationships with men)
in 30 Days
In this 15-session ecourse, designed to
be done over a 30-day period, you’ll go from wherever your self-esteem is to
a place where you have tools and perspective to consistently choose high
self-esteem in your life – and in your relationship with your man.
If you want to have a high-quality
relationship with a man, feeling good about yourself (and being able to
convey it), is not just a good idea - it’s critically important to
your ability to create and maintain a fulfilling relationship.
Think about it. Who ever heard of a
woman with low self esteem and an authentically great marriage?
Where you are currently with your
self-esteem (information is power)
the negative beliefs you have that
hold you back
how to create positive, intentional
beliefs to help you get to where you want to go in your life
how to tame that familiar, critical
voice inside you, and replace it with a much more helpful message
How to consistently see and appreciate
what's great about you
I Want You To Be Successful
By now you know that high self-esteem is
crucial to success in all areas of your life. We know you’re a very busy
woman, and your life is full. I designed this course with you in
mind!
In order to support you to be
successful, each session has simple exercises that can be completed in
approximately 15-20 minutes. If you complete one session every two days, as
it’s designed to be done, you’ll complete the program and be on your way to
higher self-esteem in just 30 days.
No matter how busy you are, I’ll
bet you can scare up 20 minutes out of your schedule every 2nd day.
Plus I’ll send you an email every two
days to support you in being successful by reminding you of the session for
that day. These emails are to help you keep yourself a priority in
your life, and to complete the program.
Are You Asking Yourself Whether or
not This Will Really Work For You?
100% Risk-Free 45-Day Money-Back Guarantee
You may be thinking "I’ve tried other
programs, and they haven’t worked. I want a proven program that works."
Here’s my promise to you: If
you really do this course, complete all the exercises, and give it your
best, and you still find that your self-esteem hasn't improved any since
before you started the program, I will not only give you a complete refund,
I'll also give you a free laser coaching call (15 - 20 minutes) to help you
figure out what's next for you.
There is
zero risk to you in trying "Improve Your Self-Esteem (and your relationships
with men) in 30 Days".
One-to-one coaching and group coaching
would require an investment of at least $120 per month.
"Improve Your Self-Esteem (and your relationships with men) in 30 Days" will
cost you a fraction of that.
If you need more details before making a
decision,
click here.
I think you’ll agree that the cost
is nothing in comparison to what it'll cost you in terms of your
relationships, career and life to not do the work to raise your
self-esteem.
You're worthy of having the relationship, and the life, you really want.
I would love to be able to help you have those things. I hope you give
this program a try...I guarantee it
will help you, or, not only will you get your money back, but you'll
get a free laser coaching session to boot!
If this is the right time for you to
improve your self-esteem, to have higher regard for yourself - and have
better relationships because of it...to have the life you've always dreamed
of, it all starts with a better relationship with you.
Click here to get started!
Wishing you great love in your life,
Karen
P.S. -
Don't let one more
day go by feeling less than great about who you are. This
program is immediately downloadable...how much more time are you willing to
spend feeling bad?
Click here to be on your way!
Do you have a relationship dream? Karen Jones can help.
Call: (978) 557-9993 or email:
karen@theheartmatters.com